I
have been thinking and reading a great deal about communication
recently. Its what I do most. I speak, write, sing, and gesture in
order to communicate. I do most of these things every single day.
Sometimes I do them well, sometimes horribly. But communication is
such a basic ingredient of life and means so much to all human beings
that it is important for us to consider not only the how of
communications, but the what.
Have you noticed that in both Testaments, prophets spoke, sang,
danced, acted, and used very broad and, certainly at times, startling
methods in order to communicate their message? Methods of
communication are varied. Yet creative communicators are always
appreciated by some, while in danger of being tarred and feathered by
others? Why?
The easy answer is that people enjoy and relate to the delivery
(the method and imaginative disseminationthe art) of the
message, or perhaps the content, or both. Of course, some will also
dislike the delivery, the information they perceive the communicator
is offering, or both. Everything from simple arguments to all-out wars
have resulted from such things.
In my own life, I have found that study (research by listening and
reading and watching others) is extremely important to the process of
both my chosen methods of communication as well as the actual messages
I wish to convey.
A.W. Tozer made a powerful call to the church years ago. He did it
on a vast number of levels, but one comment of his bears very much on
what I would like to consider here. He said we need people who can
come into a sanctified imagination. As much as I have read Tozer and
about Tozer, I have never found him to directly elaborate on that
powerful statement. But I have pondered the phrase for a long time.
Sanctification happens through Gods gracious gift, by our
obedience to His Word. As we respect the qualities of purity and
holiness in others we realize those qualities in the fabric of our own
character.
I love to communicate in word and music and gesture, and I burn in
my heart with various messages that I truly believe God has put there
for me to share. Yet not everything I think about needs be
communicated! I am well aware that I often think aloud when I need to
be quiet. I am excited and passionate about things and blab on and on
redundantly. In a writing mode, what people like me need (and argue
with incessantly) is an editor.
Though most of us appreciate truly sound criticism, most of us
bristle to our own defense the moment anybody bothers to offer it.
How, you may ask, might I know any of this?!! How indeed! Ha.
I live in a community with several hundred adults and children,
senior citizens and many very little babies. We cover the gamut of
race, ethnicity, education, near insanity, honor, honesty, and of
course have some deeply needy people. We are, in fact, a microcosm of
the Church.
For my profit as well as yours, Ive been criticized fairly often
over the past twenty-five years by others living in community with me.
I have other friends outside of the community and, yes, detractors who
have also spoken out. Naturally, I most appreciate those who will do
so in love, biblically, and to my face. But . . . hear this well,
young artists, musicians, pastors, and anyone else in the churches
. . . I have never ceased to profit on some level from critique.
If you prayerfully consider even the possibility of truthfulness in
criticism, take it to God and godly people youre accountable to and
discover biblical and practical truth for your life in it, give
thanks! Of course, we must consider something before we swallow it
whole, but we must not automatically reject it because we dont like
to be judged. If it turns out to be total rubbish and sinful
judgmentalism, you have still been edified by the prayer time, Bible
study, and opportunity to check your attitudes, and by forgiving those
who have offended you.
None of us chooses this sort of blessing, but the fact is all
things do work for the benefit, the actual good, of those who love
God and are called according to His purpose. All of this directly
relates to the editing of song ideas, writing, sermons, teachings, and
every other area of life.
Many times my father had a one-word caution for his creative son:
Think! We have all heard the words, Think before you speak. Amen.
Critique is profitable when it moves you to think, drop to your knees
in prayer as you seek Gods guidance on the matter. And if you will
build and maintain friendships with godly people, you will learn to
habitually hear the sort of balance and correction they can offer you.
Without these sort of friends, friendship would be shallow indeed.
Before you write, speak, communicate in any mode, by all means
think about what you are setting out to do:
1. Think about the possible effects of both delivery and
content. Is it skillful? True? Is it appropriate to the
particular group you are addressing?
2. Pray about your attitude as well as communication
method and content. Pray for those who will be influenced by
your offering!
3. Establish and maintain accountable relationships of
love and trust. Invite godly, knowledgeable Christians to
edit your communications and creative output prior to it
being put on public display.
4. Choose your editors on the basis of truth and skill, not
emotion. It is sheer folly to heap up groupies who have
neither the love nor the guts to tell us the truth about our
flaws.
Those who will not walk in humility over time often become
embittered towards those who critique their work and/or content.
Because creative, expressive people rarely become any less passionate
about their life and work, despair finally reigns in such a persons
life.
I have known and observed countless Christians put stumbling
blocks in their own way in such circumstances time and again. They
refuse to seek and respect those most likely to help them on the path
that perhaps God Himself has led them. Yet these same artists expect
people to respectfully beat a path to their door to receive what they
offer. But what are they really offering?
The ability to communicate imaginatively and skillfully is a
wonderful gift! But hear this bit of wisdom from Joseph Joubert: He
who has imagination without learning has wings and no feet. The
communicator needs both. The wings of imagination need feet in order
to be grounded. Grounded feet need wings above that are free to fly in
wondrous creativity. To publicly move in an expressive gift with
little or no thought about the veracity, the biblical truthfulness of
the content is like pouring sand and gravel out of what may be an
exquisite vase. On the other hand, if one refuses to consider the
skillful and artistic quality of the message, many may judge it as the
selling of raw and perhaps suspect propaganda.
I am far more at ease using the expository method of truth-telling
than the parabolic method. This is why if I have a tendency to lack,
its on the high art side. There are those whose apprehension and
passion for the content of the message is slack, and they will
typically focus on and many times produce better art, perhaps even
lyrics in terms of the art of lyricism. In the midst of their artistic
beauty, what they are actually saying may be quite hollow.
We need Christians around us who will honestly critique us as we
pursue both quality and truth in art. Do a Bible study on two words:
skill and its synonyms, truth and its related words. There you
have it.
Accountability is not only scriptural but essential with regard to
the eternal fruitfulness of our communications. I am convinced that
not only the spiritual, but in some cases mental and emotional health
of Christian communicators is in large part assured only to the extent
that they risk friendship and close involvement with godly, honest
as well as giftededitors, producers, leaders, and the like. Why?
No one is discipled or mentored by God alone. No one.
History and my own personal experience call to mind the lives of
countless people, and those who followed them, who refused to
surrender to the wisdom of godly and objective critics. Those who
learned the art of dying to self and growing in grace through this
process are arguably considered the greatest heroes of the Christian
Church. They left behind legacies of love, truth, compassion, and
honor in a world sorely lacking such virtues.
Those who have not? What has the world reaped from those driven by
pride, insecurity, egoism, and raw selfishness? The roll call of
tyrants and cowardsand for many, the record of their subsequent
self-destructionis a long one. May God give us the grace to keep
your name and mine from that list! Francis Schaeffer said, No work of
art is more important than the Christians own life. I too have come
to that conclusion.